Hi, I’m Barbi

Your Paradise Awaits For You, Leadership Coach, Mom, Grandmother, Aunt, Foster Mother, Woman of God, Leader, and Motivational Speaker.

My life has been weaving of so many different chapters in my life. I have gone through some very difficult times and great times! From a dad who was angry, abusive (verbally and physically), controlling, to a few different Health challenges (to numerous to list now. Not to mention learning to walk 4 times in my life, divorce, accidents). Some people would have quit, but I learned to keep going (some days were of course harder than others) but I didn't give up! What most people wouldn't go through, helped me become, who I am today! This is NOT a woo is me story, this is a "Look at what God has done in and through me, in spite of myself" story.

All my life I wanted to be a mom and raise kids, I realize this was not every girl or woman's dream but it was mine. By high school I wanted 12 kids. I had no real idea how that would work, but I felt it. Life was turned upside down when the Doctors told me, I couldn't birth children, That "Rocked" my world. I went from a life full of hope to spiraling to the depths of despair. I remember a talk my sister had with me when she was about 11, so I was 21. She looked at me and told me "I need you here!" was the day my life was turned AGAIN. I've heard it said you learn to live twice the day you are born on this earth and the day you Realize Why you were born on this earth. It was also the day I started wondering "Why was I in this world?". Then I went through my first divorce , and in the process of putting my life back on track, I decided that day no matter what it took, I was going to make something of my life, because I had to, not for me but for her, my sister. I didn't care what the Doctors said. I knew in my heart, what the promise was from God, and I didn't care who else believed it. and started moving forward. I started looking and learning, I found a mentor and his wife who helped me so much, I gave my life back to God and I kept learning. My sister had a friend who I kept praying for, and one day she called me. We had a talk on the phone and she asked me if I would help her get her life back on track. She was 16, her parents had kicked her out, she had gotten pregnant, he boyfriend went to jail and her baby had died while she was still pregnant. I was compelled to help her. She lit up when I asked her what did she want to do with her life? She became a fire ball! Within a couple of months she had gotten a good job and was entering the management program for her work, she got off probation, started going to church and she literally changed the direction of her life and started living her dream life.

She was understanding the opportunity and she had confidence, that she was important, she had value, and then was able to move forward. Then the oddest thing happened, her Dad came and asked me to help with his son as well. Doing the same opportunity and things with him, after a few months, he and his dad were able to work together, and they were able to move on as a family. This sparked in me that God was allowing me to help others, and help them build their life the way they wanted it. I just used the the frame work and helped them see what they couldn't see in their lives, & others to help them into their their best life!

While still learning how to grow in my life, I was going to keep looking for who could and would help me grow into the woman God promised. This process did not happen over night and honestly, do we ever stop growing? None of us ever stop learning in this life as every day I still learn something new, when I'm open to it. I have learned so much by being the Foster Mom to over 60 amazing kids that God himself gave me, and I'm never stopping growing into the BEST me! What an Honor and Privilege. So when my Coach asked me "What do you do, that you love to do?' my answer was simple, I love people where they are at and help them see who they want to be, give them an opportunity with the framework and the coaching, and help them live their best life.

I live every day to be my best, and refining the process along the way! Fast Forward to today, I am now a leadership coach giving others the opportunity to regain their lives, and live their dream life. It is my life’s mission to help as many people as I can achieve the same...Living your best God given life, I call their dream life.

I live and breathe to help people just like you, to live the best versions of themselves by unlocking their past and searching the promises God has already given them (sometimes what you have given up on, because it looked too hard, or it has yet to be revealed) add actions and those thoughts and actions into lasting transformations.

If you’re sick and tired of reverting back into old patterns, want to live a better life, been stuck and moving slowly in life, I hear you. I’ve been there many times. And I’ve learned how to brake out of them. I found a way to get better patterns, shift and move from Surviving to Living!

Join me on the journey of a lifetime, so you can find Paradise Awaits For You! You can live your best life!